
Ladies and gentlemen, this handsome young feller is Esten Maxwell, the son of Tommy and Mel Maxwell. Most of us know Tommy better by the name Tommy Yum of the Maxwell/Mosher Band, who, as you may recall, joined us for the Big Bad Bus Tour back before the election.
In October, Esten, who is three years old, was diagnosed with leukemia. Since then, the little guy has endured multiple hospital visits, a nasty case of chicken pox, chemotherapy treatments and other painful, difficult things that no kid that young should have to go through.
This weekend in Chapel Hill, there's going to be a big benefit concert to raise money for the massive medical expenses that Esten's illness has incurred. Tonight, I'd like to kick that process off a little early.
You guys have been great about supporting progressive candidates and causes. Blue America was a massive success. Tommy was a big part of that with the song "Had Enough?" and its multiple versions, which made for some of the best campaign commercials in American history.
In short, Tommy came through for us in a thousand different ways, and now it's time for us to come through for Tommy, Mel, Evelyn (Esten's sister, who is 6), and Esten. We're asking you to donate through the FDL paypal button and please make all donations out to end in .03, since Esten is three years old and we want to keep track of which donations are going to the Maxwells.
Also, tonight, I want to extend a cordial invitation for all of you non-commenting readers to de-lurk. Just pop in down in the comments and say hi. We know you're out there and we always like to meet the people who read us, but don't always leave a comment. So, make up a screen name and say "hi"! We can't wait to meet you!
You never know. Here at FDL, today's commenter can be tomorrow's guest-poster and the next day's Big Front Page Star like, well, me. So olly olly oxen freeeeeee!! Come on out!
Tommy and I and everyone else at FDL thank you.
God bless.

(Me[r] and a Yum, Nov. 2006)
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Esten!
Trex!
TRex!
0! Yeah baby!
oh happy zed…
Trex!
Oahhhhhh!
Hang in there Esten. Where can we donate?
Completely OT, but now that the “Report” is out, do you think that from March until now Sandra Day O’Connor was kicking herself for her vote in Bush v. Gore?
Just askin’…
shooogarp @ 6
In the right margin, underneath the thermometer.
Thanks!!
Everybody please remember the Maxwells in your prayers. It’s hard when a family member is sick, but especially hard when that person is a child.
$50.03 in the FDL till for Esten. Hope he makes a complete recovery.
Stay as funny as you are! Many nights you are the last thing I read online. I’m smiling as I finish.
shooogarp @
6
Donate to FDL using FDL’s PayPal button and end your donation with .03 cents. That way they know it’s for Esten.
On my way to donate what I can now.
Done.
Thanks to the Yums for everything.
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Had Enough?
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You guys are the best readers on the web.
Bar none.
But no lurkers de-lurking yet?
Do I need to threaten to strip off all my clothes and post a photo if we don’t start seeing some new faces in here?
Hi TRex, Esten, & Tommy
I donated what I could & I hope Esten will get better soon!! :hug:
ralps
leftranch @
10
Hi!
Thanks for coming by!
Best wishes for Esten…
Oh, and…
Hi, everyone!
Hi, TRex! : )
atdnext @ 16
Hiiiiiiiii, Andrew. You’re looking handsome this evening…
Damn TRex, my heart leaped into my throat when I first saw the headline. Once I read it I was cool though. Unfortunately I can’t send money, but Tommy and Esten are always in my prayers.
TRex @ 13
Oh you sexy thing, TRex! ; )
TRex @ 13
That only works for Pammy from Strong Island
Excuse my ignorance, but can we use the Visa/MC button too?
TRex @ 17
Well, I am wearing my multicolor Polo sweater…
After all, I am at my DFA meeting! : )
egads, your little one is truly beautiful, tommy yum.
blessings to Esten and thank you TRex, FDL, Mr. Yum, Mel, Evelyn and their extended family.
SusanD @ 21
Of course!
I wish I had some cash to offer, but underemployment makes that impossible at the moment. I lost a friend to leukemia back when I was in sixth grade. I hate that disease. I hope Esten kicks its butt and never looks back.
TRex @ 13
That does it, Im outta here for the night, the thought of a naked 60′ therapod is way too much to deal with just before bed. Hmmm, maybe it wasn’t the meteor that caused the extinction after all….
Sent what I could. My prayers and good thoughts are going To Esten and his family.
Thanks to Tommy Yum for the most excellant Had Enough.
It was smoking.
TRex @ 28
Wasn’t there a Far Side Cartoon to that effect?
TRex @ 28
That’s just a theory, like evolution or the Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon.
petedownunder @ 29
Wasn’t there a Far Side Cartoon to that effect?
Yes. I’m totally cribbing from Far Side on that.
TRex @ 31
If imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, why are there copyright laws?
I donated!
A few $ on the way..another example of why the right sort of Dems need to be elected. A family shouldn’t have to worry about a sick child and going broke. (A socialist MD.)
petedownunder @ 29
There was! It’s here: Dinos smoking
Ich bin ein apple fritter.
Thirty-two years ago today my beloved baby sister, then seven years old, was diagnosed with leukemia. She went through chemo twice, two and a half years each time.
She is alive, well and in one of the happiest marriages I’ve ever seen.
There is hope. My very best thoughts are beamed your way, young Esten.
Mungen_Cakes @ 36
Mmmmmmm.
Mungen_Cakes @ 35
I thought the translation was jelly doughnut, but then I don’t speak German
Ich bin ein jelly donut.
noblejoanie @ 37
Bravo for your sister! I’m impressed; the odds were a lot lower back then. It’s great to hear that she won the fight.
TRex @ 39
Thought so
BTW, Trex - smoking is liable to make current dinosaurs extinct too, just a thought.
I think my comment got et. Any how a few $ on the way. Another example of why the right kind of Dems need to be elected. A family doesn’t need to worry about a sick child and going broke. This kind of shit makes me sick. Esten will do well. (A socialist MD)
petedownunder @ 38
When I went to the Netherlands the first time (in 1996), there were big glossy posters in many of the train stations announcing “Ich bin ein Berliner.” (Not “Ik ben en Berliner,” which would be the Dutch equivalent.) There was nothing on those posters to say what was being advertised, if anything; I thought it was hysterical.
EvilDrPuma @ 43
We old folks remember JFK’s speech in Berlin after the wall went up, about 1960 or so. I have no idea what was being meant in 1996.
TRex @
13
A photo of your clothes? Ooh, cool!
I promise that you would infinitely prefer that to the alternative.
Delurking to say hi, I’ll send what I can.
petedownunder @ 44
I could imagine somebody just posting the phrase to poke fun at Americans–that would fit with the Dutch style of humor. The posters were all over, though, so I assume they were ads for something. I just never learned what.
momby @
49
Hi, momby!!
Welcome!
And thank you!
Trex -
I saw a T-shirt in SF a few years ago:
I gave up drinking
I gave up smoking
I gave up sex
It was the worst twenty minutes of my life
momby @ 47
hi momby! welcome to the Lake, and thanks for joining us…
TRex, I’m unable to send anything but my prayers and good thoughts.
To help out the newbies, this is how easy it is:
“Hi.”
Try it yourself - see, that’s not so hard.
They help, too. More than you know.
A sawbuck plus .03 for Esten, hope it helps. Jeez, you guys, I’m in Canada and this doesn’t have to happen! When I broke my foot (fell off a platform shoe, you can tell how long ago that was) and phoned my mom she asked, “Do you need money?” I was genuinely puzzled. “What for?”
Esten. Tommy Yum, whom we all owe a big debt for savin’ America. And Universal Health Care.
OT..TRex are you still smoking? I started when I was 13 and smoked Camels and Marlboros for the next 40 years. I quit six years ago and still have smoking dreams. I swear, if my C-T scan turns positive I’ll be at the 7-11 buying a carton of Marlboro Reds. Give that shit up..really.
TRex @ 48
I was hoping to see one of your GAP sweaters…
TRex—great post. My best to Tommy and Family. It ain’t much but I can’t not support the man who gave us Had Enough.
TSF—don’t even think about it. :)
**OT**
Egad - watching the White House Decorating for Christmas show on HGTV and there is so much red they should change the name to the Red House.
Red, red, red, everywhere. Make me think of communist Russia.
Ya know what, we’re all gonna die. All of us. I don’t care how healthy your lifestyle, eventually you get the hook. There’s no back door out of the world.
I’m almost 63. I’ve been smoking for 42 years. I’m never quitting. Here is my philosophy, don’t remember the source.
In fact, I think I’m gonna have the “Yeehaaww” part engraved on my urn or tombstone.
Suzanne @ 60
Or blood running in the streets.
I feel dreadful I can’t give more then just a tad, but I am sending many hugs and the best vibes possible.
The excess is sickening, TRex, just sickening.
Suzanne @ 63
Yeah, I saw one of those shows either last year or the year before. You’re right–it’s nauseating. But it is a good metaphor for this administration–disgusting excess at the people’s expense.
Best wishes to Esten, Tommy and Mel.
Headed home.
Will check back in from there.
Looking good TRex and Tommy..but the little one
is just the cutest and those eyes!! Esten
will be in our prayers and thoughts until he
is completely well…nothing worse than being ill..I just returned from Boston where hubby
was admitted today for some strange problem…won’t know what is wrong for a few days..cultures have to grow…so I understand what Tommy has been going through…been there done that for the past six years!! :) Just tell
little Esten that Santa will be coming in a few weeks and for him to stay healthy!!
Donation has been sent….Bless all of you!
Maureen
SusanD @ 61
You and I have the same philosophy. I don’t know about you but old age doesn’t have a great many upsides, and I love smoking. I hope you don’t mind if I use your line about life, it seems to fit me too.
delurk mode
I have delurked a couple of times before this just to say how much I love TRex. Sorry, I can’t help myself. I am in the oasis of Austin in the great red state of Texas, formerly from Midland, yes, THAT Midland, and before that Chicago.
Thanks for this post about Esten. When I think about how hectic last October was, I can’t imagine how the news of Esten’s illness must have shattered all of you. And yet, you carried on with the final push in Connecticut. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. With all this good energy and love going his way, I hope Esten will make a full recovery. And maybe someday we won’t have to do fundraisers for health care expenses. For now, $$sent.
lurk mode
TRex @ 67
So am I…
My DFA meeting is over.
: )
neurophius @ 66
Same here…
God bless them. : )
kirk, pete, shoogarp, Jo Fish, and TRex — seen all these names before. Ditto TST, Nate, atdnest, TM — sorry you’re not doing so well, and hope yu get lots of holiday shoppers buying martini stuff — angie (you guys hear her new nickname, angie oakley? I like!)
Leftranch — Hello and welcome! you the Yosemite winegrowin’ guy or the NZ one? Pretty place you have there, and very smug-looking cats. Mine were envious that yours have their own treehouse. Suzanne, check, RGB, check, Steve, check
ralps — hi! Where you from?
noblejoanie — hi and thanks.
triciawrites — I’m sure I’ve seen you, but not often? Or not here? Hi!
SusanD — not sure, I think you are a regular, but if not welcome and if so, hi! Er, yeehaw!
momby, hi. Interesting handle. Is there an origin story?
mungen cakes — greetings from the place where donuts are part of our national identity:
Kewalo, be my guest.
And actually, since I’m healthy, I’m digging getting old. I can be just as rowdy as I wanta be. I refuse to fit the stereotype of “old lady”.
HotFlash, I think I may be an “irregular”
;)
One of my kids was in NYC last year and fainted. Ambulance and ER and tests were >$2000.
She’s chronically depressed and anxious. We would be impoverished if we had to pay for her care.
I will put together my computer and Visa tomorrow. It seems a barbaric way to save a life.
I met the guys at the Ned Lamont rally the weekend before election day. They were admiring the “Kiss” float, and I got to thank them for coming (and for “Had Enough?”) in person. Yay.
Count me in. And all blessings to Esten.
(I think I’ve only commented maybe 5 or 6 times before. That qualifies me as a delurker, wouldn’t you say?)
Yes, Alison, the USA, the only country where you have to pay to live. And I don’t mean reside.
TRex,
A “delurker” here. Thanks so much for giving us the opportunity to help out. FDL is a great community. I read Reddhead every morning as a sanity break and check in regularly during the day.
A request though — is there a way to contribute via check through the post? Have been burned with computer fraud using PayPal and credit cards over the Internet. I do want to do my part to help TommyYum, Esten and the family.
OT to you TRex. Loved your recent post about your heritage and Eden, NC. Am stuck here in the “Big Apple” but my twin is the principal of the high school in Eden. It’s a wonderful place where I spend many happy days. It’s no wonder you’re such a fine fella given your provenance.
Blessings to all who post and lurk here. You represent the true spirit of this land we love.
Alison @ 75
I don’t know that there’s a barbaric way to save a life, but it’s for damned sure that pay-to-play medicine is some kind of evil. A situation like this tells me everything I need to know about the so-called “culture of life.”
I read a while back that the majority of homeless or destitute women in the US became so because they lost their homes to pay for their husmand’s final illness. A couple, both retired teachers, joined my choir here in Toronto, having moved from Detroit. I was ragging them, “Why did you retire here when you could have retired to Florida and never seen snow again?” “Well,” she said, looking a bit embarrassed, “my husband needed a triple by-pass.”
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EvilDrPuma @
65
The reason the Bushes have the Xmas White House teevee show is, of course, their great sacrifice of not letting Americans tour OUR house during the holidays. Terrorism, dontcha know. Poor Bushes: only pre-screened audiences, three parties each day, but no tours.
But Jim Webb got in once; maybe he’ll get another invite for the Holidaze!
TeddySanFran @ 83
Yeah, that sucks! Oh, and I’m not so sure that Webb will get another invite to the “Red House” anytime soon…
After all, he refused to bow down and kiss the ring. : (
Moesie @
68
Thank you!! And best wishes and prayers for your husband.
TeddySanFran @ 83
Relax Teddy. If you play your cards right, America will be touring your house soon, whether you know it or not.
Monga @
70
We love you, too, Monga! Keep coming back! And leave more comments! My ego’s appetite for approval is insatiable, so any time you feel like throwing compliments, you know where to send them.
atdnext @ 83
You mean this ring?
EvilDrPuma @ 88
Yep, that looks like it!
As a friend’s bumper sticker says:
Jane (nyc) @
79
OMG!!!!
Both my parents graduated from that high school!
Holy smokes, what a small world!
HotFlash @ 73
Hi, HotFlash! : )
I gave. Not a lot, but what I could.
Double scoopa monga for me too! Thanks for joining in the conversation, monga. It was hard for me to post a comment the first time, and now they can’t shut me up here. So, stay a while and don’t be shy no more.
PS If you feel like throwing not-compliments TRex’s way, that’ll let Jane do another exciting thread On Language, so speak your piece anytime.
Oh. God. Please. No.
I really would go extinct.
TeddySanFran @ 93
Hi, monga! Please keep coming back…
Hi again, Teddy! So you were afraid to comment here at first? I know I was until just last week…
And then all of you welcomed me in so nicely, and now I’m hooked. I just can’t shut my piehole here! : )
I was looking at the picture of Estenand the one of Tommy — Esten has his own nose, but betcha that chin looks just like dad’s in a few years. Wonder if he’s musical, too.
WaPo White House Reporter Michael Fletcher chatz at 11am eastern; questions accepted anytime.
National Security Reporter Dana Priest chatz at 12:30pm eastern. Ask now and get in early!
I wonder if Dana Priest thinks the B/H-ISG has been overtaken by events, especially with regard to our allies’ dilemma on extraordinary rendition. Don’t some of the US prison and rendition crime partners have unclean hands as they participate in the Big MidEast Negotiations?
TRex @ 94
I guess I’m still too new here…
What happened?
And did it have anything to do with pie? ; )
I love it when people delurk.
The donations are rolling in, I don’t have a total but it looks good for Estan.
(Nobody panic if the thermometer on the side of the page came down, the book is done and we have some annoncements to make that will come out soon but suffice to say that all is great.)
HotFlash @ 96
So far, Evelyn is the musical one. I can’t wait to meet those kids. If they’re even half as awesome as their dad makes them sound, they’re the most awesome kids in the world.
Gawd Teddy, I’d rather go hunting with Dick Cheney.
Jane Hamsher @ 101
Oh no, was it that bad?
I’m not an “irregular” poster; I’m more like the pre-menopausal visitor who shows up once a month for a while, goes a four-month stretch without a sign, then reappears.
It’s confusing, and it ain’t no fun when it coincides with a hot flash.
However, I look in for my Late Night post regularly, and I listened to “Had Enough?” over and over so that I could sing it to myself on the drive to work, so it’s satisfying to pay my appreciation forward to Esten.
(Evelyn, sometimes big things happen to a brother so that mom and dad seem to be paying less attention to a big sister. But please remember you always always have their love. No one else can be their Evelyn.)
Jane Hamsher @ 101
Shit, skip the trip to Texas, just shoot me in the face straight away!
That thread was an excellent idea. Let’s never EVER EVER EVER do it again.
EVAAAAAR!!!!!111!1!!!!
‘Lo.
I’ve only been lurkin for a few weeks. TRex, your snark has a tendency to make me gigglesnort, as i term my laughter. No keyboards harmed–yet. But i think my monitor has been in danger once or twice! Highlight of my night after a crazy day at the pharmacy to work.
I need to dig up my card, but i think i can get a few bucks to Esten. I lost a grandfather to cancer, but my gramma’s fought it off twice so far. I’m always game to help someone else through that fight.
I remember Thermometer-Panic! That was a hoot. People would donate, the thermometer wouldn’t move, Jane would explain… round it went. Good times.
Sorry, TRex, I didn’t mean to encourage anyone to be de-complimentary. I do think the meta thread was wonderful, and I’m proud it was prompted partly by your writing.
I, of course, have only good things to say as well.
We should be ashamed of ourselves for tolerating any politician who refuses to support universal single payer health care. These stories are too god damn common. We’re better than this. Truman was campaigning on this issue for Christ’s sake!
aliasofwestgate @ 105
Muchas gracias, alias. Welcome!
Can I fix you something to drink?
Hi SW, welcome, and right you are — it’s shocking how long health care’s been denied to people in a society that can afford it.
[Oh, and never mind about the you-know-what thread, forget I mentioned it, please, everyone.]
It is just insane to me that here we are chipping in to get health care for Esten — and are happy to do so, I might add — but the US spends more per capita on health care than Canada does and look at this. My dad in MI was insured up the wazoo from nearly 50 years employment with good benefits, but still had $1,000’s to pay re deductibles and not covered stuff over my mom’s final illness and death. My cousin and her husband (also MI) had a child born with a hole in her heart — he made pretty good money as a bricklayer but they