
I want to talk a bit about the site, my view of what we do, and the use of language here. Recently there was a dustup when comments made by TRex and Pach were deemed objectionable by some and based on this, characterizations of both as "sexist" were made. While I basically think that people who launch these kinds of attacks, drawing false conclusions based on a superficial analysis of their respective works that consists entirely of the posts in question and engaging in gender- or race-baiting as a way to get their point across (or draw attention to themselves) are either shallow analysts, bad faith artists or both, the discussion of the language used in these posts is a valid topic of discussion and that conversation should have happened here at FDL One of the words used in TRex's post -- "cunt" -- triggers the comment moderation function here and when the text was quoted in the comments they wound up in the filter and did not get sprung in time for the conversation to be conducted at FDL. So tonight I wanted to give people the opportunity to air their views here, and Pach, Christy and TRex are all here to add their thoughts, which vary by individual.
I don't use the "c" word personally, though I'm hardly a saint on that front -- nothing gets Michelle Malkin's blood boiling faster than to remind her that I once called Kate O'Beirne "sandpaper snatch." Since that time it's been refined by the community (thanks to punaise) into "Ole 60 Grit" and it has become something of blogospheric lore -- Jim O'Beirne's notorious hiring of Heritage Foundation interns for the CPA is now commonly referred to as the "60 Grit Employment Agency." We are, first and foremost, writers (and artists) here on this site, and I will not impose limitations on how people can express themselves here. We test the edges of communication, and in doing so often get perilously close to the edge and occasionally step over. It's what makes us exciting, challenging and interesting, in the tradition of Lenny Bruce or Hunter S. Thompson.
I have personally been notoriously short tempered with the Barbara Bushes amongst us who castigate us for lack of "civility" and our part in soiling their beautiful minds. It's a classic accusation leveled against outsiders by members of the established order trying to disempower them, rather than addressing any validity of their viewpoints. Nothing written here has ever led to thousands of bodies lying dead in the Middle East (thank you WaPo and NYT) or approached the extreme outrages of Rush Limbaugh or Ann Coulter, yet we are constantly subjected to characterizations of being dirty, foul hippies. But the fact is that the right owned the public discourse for decades by using hot language that shot straight through the limbic system and engaged people in a primal way while the left wrapped itself in dry wonkery. Our use of strong language is concerted and, I believe, effective. As Alinsky said (thank you RBG):
Ridicule is man's most potent weapon. It is almost impossible to counterattack ridicule. Also it infuriates the opposition, who then react to your advantage.
It's one of the tools we use, some of us more than others, and I think our success is largely a testament to its effectiveness.
But as Pachacutec said in an email, trying to define appropriate limits is going to create a lot of gray area:
I think the online medium does operate according to some more unique physics of communication and social conduct. While I don't think it's acceptable to lie, as Coulter and her ilk do, I do, for myself, think it's acceptable to engage in targeted character assassination and takedowns to strategic purpose, as we did with Lieberman.
Now, when you're doing these character takedowns, insulting or mocking people, some people are going to dislike it. The material we have at our disposal should not include, according to our own principles, racist, homophobic or sexist content. Then again, once we get into the takedown, mockery and insult arena, there are some gray areas that people could interpret either way. Take for example my post on Saturday that started this latest tempest. The #3 definition of the word whore from my online dictionary describes a person who has compromised principles for personal gain. At what point does my application of the term in that context cause offense? Is it the use of the term at all? Is it when I use the language that recalls fellatio rather vividly but metaphorically? I can see arguments for either, but my point is, once we get into the character attack mode, according to some notion that online communication allows for communication that is not likely to occur in direct, offline social discourse, we're going to run into grey areas and lines with this.
A discussion of what is and is not acceptable within this type of discourse is appropriate and desirable here at FDL, and to the extent that we have been dismissive of those who don't agree with our individual interpretations of what is acceptable I take responsibility for setting the tone. And while I think that attacking us (or other liberal bloggers) for a lack of "civility" is often the tack of bad faith artists with other agendas (especially on the heels of our success during this last election with Blue America and other projects and battles we've successfully undertaken), it is our responsibility to take those critiques offered in good faith seriously and be willing to engage in a reasoned conversation about them in an appropriate time and place. So please consider this the appropriate time and place and feel free to express your views (as always with respect for the posters and fellow commenters), and we'll be here to answer your questions.
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I’ll just be making myself a cup of tea. Thanks, Jane.
I am at a loss for f’ing words.
Fix me one, too, while you’re up, Christy. If you don’t mind.
Is there a problem about this?- I have always thought that the earthy language of this place is remarkable and valuable.
Okay, I’ll watch my M*F*ing mouth. But I don’t have to like the bastahd emperor do I? ;)
Actually, I’m going to do Swiss miss tonight. Now, now, I don’t meant ‘thaaaat’.
I’d like to refer people as well to this rather raucus discussion at Tom Watson’s place. Obviously I don’t agree with everything said, but I did offer many responses and the discussion did grow more substantive, generally speaking, as it progressed. Also, to the extent people have questions of me, some of them may already be answered over there. I don’t mean to redirect conversation, only to add to the reference material available to the community.
rwcole @ 5
There’s been a bit of a stink out there, rw. Jane’s opening the door to some dialog it turns into an all-out Bolshevik-style Blogrom.
rwcole @
5
Me too, rw, me too. I think the conversation is about a bit more, however — how we front pagers engage with commenters. At what point is someone a “troll?” If we jump in and start arguing with someone, are we “shouting them down” or just engaging in lively debate?
Execellently put.
I have little or no complaint with the occasionally excessive lack of decorum here in the Big Flaming Muddy. Shit-talkin’ happens.
It’s the response to people who take exception to the shit-talkin’ that gets a little worrisome. The extended screaming over at dkos over Trex’s Japan post was par for the course (including the FDL responses) and is one of the reasons I stay out of the comments there.
The blow up at Tom Watson was harder to excuse. You’re point, Jane, regarding taking honest criticism honestly applies in spades here. When people call us out for perceived mis-steps, we owe it to ourselves to consider where the criticism is coming from and the motivation for it.
Words have power. There is no doubt about that.
I semi-seriously equate the use of those extreme, emotionally-charged words with the use of firearms. You shouldn’t pull out your .380 at every sign of potential trouble, but when you DO, it had better be justified.
And following that analogy even further:
“It’s better to have a “fuck” and not need it, than to need a “fuck” and not have one.”
Oh, and I do have a permit for it. ;)
EPU’d Breaking…
Iraq Panel to Recommend Pullback of Combat Troops
WASHINGTON, Nov. 29 — The bipartisan Iraq Study Group reached a consensus on Wednesday on a final report that will call for a gradual pullback of the 15 American combat brigades now in Iraq but stop short of setting a firm timetable for their withdrawal, according to people familiar with the panel’s deliberations.
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/11.....r=homepage
Rudeness is to be avoided.
There is no one solution that will satisfy everyone. So, blog owner, please impose your own and I hope it tends to the extreme of allowing everything (except I hate ad hominem attacks). If people dont like “vulgarity” then they should read something else. But whatever you do, somebody wont like it. So dont worry and be happy!!!
Jane,
If you think I am one of the “bad faith artists with other agendas,” you are wrong. Further, what you characterize as an “attack” was criticism, plain and simple and honestly meant. It had my real name on it, and I stand by it.
My post was the third in a series on writing by progressive commentators who dipped into sexist terms, from Maureen Dowd to FDL. The posts and FDL bloggers I called out are part of a trend that I and clearly many others find troubling.
Further, when I asked TRex why he hadn’t approved my original comment, he replied on my blog:
Doesn’t seem to be an automod, but a TRexmod.
Finally, the main point of my post was that this kind of thing hurts the greater cause - which is beating this gang of thugs driving our country into historic depths of ignominy, and ensuring a real progressive agenda.
Using this kind of language helps the other side especially when we have the highest-ranking woman is U.S. history and a likely female nominee.
I’m saying it was stupid. Bad strategy. Not smart. Bad for business. So incredibly clumsy and ham-handed that it made me wonder (in purposeful hyperbole, to be sure) whether this might not be some double-reverse Rovian tactic.
Yeah, I know it’s “punk” and “Smashmouth Liberalism” but judging by the comments on my post, plenty of liberal women don’t appreciate it either. You should understand that they’re both angry and hurt.
And when people turn away, the choir gets smaller and more insular. So who are we going to convince then?
Thank you for this post and the opportunity to comment.
Cozumel @ 13
Like I said the other night. Conservative yoga. The art of bending yourself into logistic pretzels without ever actually changing anything.
In the past, I’ve engaged in debate with commenters here, and in some cases that has led people to feel I was being overbearing. Having risen here as a commenter, it’s a little disorienting to become accustomed to the extra power and deference people accord to the front pager. So, I’ve kind of stopped doing debate in the comments, because it intimidated people, and made some think that differing points of view were unwelcome.
To me, that was weird, because in my mind, engagement in debate is a sign of taking someone seriously, and hashing out ideas with them a token of respect. But not everyone experiences conflict that way, so, in response to community feedback, I backed off.
Hurting someone’s feelings is possibly a cardinal sin.
isnt having a debate what its all about?
Patrick 4/4 @ 11
I’m not sure I understand your point. If you’re saying that Watson labeling TRex and Pach as “sexists” was valid, it wasn’t. Whatever comments he had about the use of language, it’s hard to take them seriously when he starts throwing around specious claims like that. TRex and Pach are not sexists, period, and anyone who wants to start off the conversation with that assertion is going to be met with quite a bit of pushback.
Really…..
I don’t use the ‘c’ word unless the situation truly calls for it. You see, cunt stands for somthing and it is not vile, but it is true.
Can’t
Understand,
Never
Tried
This fits those who deserve it well. I will always lump (no pun intended) Ann Coulter, Michele Malkin and yes Rush Slimbaugh and Bill Orally make thelist as well.
So you see, certain words may be vile, but if you think about it, it fits!
All things more or less in moderation. I’m not being wishy-washy here; I’m all for the character assassination of those who have no character, but I don’t think words like “cunt” or “asshole” will wound any target as effectively as deviously clever and well-crafted ridicule. (My favorite quote, from a Versailles aristo: “Vice is immaterial, but ridicule is fatal.”)
These sorts of words usually backfire on those who use them. The writer looks sophomoronic, unable to muster anything better than high school taunts.
This site is appealing exactly because the knowledge and convictions of those who post and comment are delivered with slashing wit.
Don’t censor by any means, but don’t stoop to conquer either.
Pachacutec @ 18
;) I’m rarely intimidated.
What’s good enough for Dostoievski is good enough for me. He was a tough talker.
Been sent to the land of moderation….
Please release my previous comment
Please
Well, for starters, in terms of my perspective (she says, sipping her too-hot tea), I laid out a good bit of that in this post back in August. And I think it pretty much sums up how I try and work things here at FDL. But that’s just me.
I have no clue what set off the sexist criticism but I do know that just because somebody isnt sexist doesnt mean they cant say something that somebody hears that way. On the other hand some folks need to grow a skin if they are going to engage in debates on the net
oddball at 24 — dang, I just checked the mod queue. (goes to look again…)
On the language issue again- (and I now understand that the language only a part of what is being discussed)–in the case of FDL the language is part of the message—it would be hypocritical to pretend to attack conservatives for their “magical thinking” and yet pretend that the use of anglo saxon words rather than latin to describe body parts constitutes a great offense–it would be to express belief in magical thinking.
Trust me, Tom, if I had seen your post on the night in question, I would have been more than happy to respond to it. In fact, I generally have to be pulled back by the moderators from responding with naked hostility to commenters who irritate me.
When you asked why I was afraid to display your comment on my post, I thought you were asking why I hadn’t updated it to include your complaint, hence my response.
I am terribly sorry some good people got their feelings hurt by things I have written. I try to aim my flame-thrower at people who richly deserve it, but there is some occasional collateral damage.
That said, I feel it is worth pointing out that people who get their noses out of joint about the things I say and write should be aware that things are not going to go any easier on them in other parts of the blogging world. You can’t do this job with a thin skin.
The people who are so gleefully proclaiming me a racist and a sexist should know, however, that I do not indulge in the luxury of judging people by their groups, whether that be their race, gender, orientation, religion, or political philosophy. I allow every individual to piss me off on their own merits and act accordingly.
Dammit! just spent 10 mins composing a comment and it disappeared!
Jane, maybe for this we should change the auto feature that closes comments after 12 hours? I for one would be willing to bring back the preelection timing feature since traffic is closer to normal now. Maybe there’s a good reason not to, but I thought I’d throw it out there.
For those not in the know, to manage traffic and bandwidth stuff, we set comments to close automatically after 12 hours heading into the election. We did not want the site to go dark the way it did during the CT-Sen primary, and I was blogging fresh posts until 3 AM EST election night.
What better lead to follow for “civility” than the Vice President of the United States, Dick Cheney? So with that in mind…
“Go fuck yourselves.”
Now that’s class with a capital “ASS.”
Okay — I just freed up a couple of stuck comments. If everyone will refresh, you should see them. :)
I spend my working life writing for businesses–carefully crafting, parsing, massaging, and, at times, beating strong words to a painful pulp. (Ok, maybe I’m being moderately dramatic but not really.) Anyway, the point is, I have lurked and occasionally tossed in a comment here and there for over a year because of the sharp, emotional, and grab-you-by-the-eyeballs-and-force-you-to-read writing here. From the front pagers and the commenters. God for more of this energy and use of language that actually means something! Your words have kept me sane and engaged and even hopeful in rare moments.
I overlook words that I don’t particularly like, or read them in context and either agree or not. If a discussion gives me heartburn, I go back to work or reading or the dishes or to bed. You know, you can turn off the Internet as easily as you can flip the channels on the TV remote.
What drives me insane is that too many people have a massive case of the “politically correct, I’m superior, you’ll harm my sensitive sensibilities” attitude. To them, I say bugger off. Go somewhere else if we’re insulting you.
Ok, I feel better now… :)
In reading the entries on this blog, I have frequently felt that there is a certain level of hatred at work here beyond anything justified by any wrong done by the opposition.
I have considered myself a dissenter from the mainstream for most of my life, but have never felt much kinship with haters, whether I agreed with their politics or not.
The problem with haters is that when they acquire power, they are the most extreme abusers of it, again regardless of their politics.
I guess I have a greater faith in the fair mindedness of the American people and in democracy in general. I don’t think ad hominem arguments are either necessary or useful in the project of self-governance.
I assume this preference for civility that I am expressing will draw vitriolic responses. If so, I will be as unimpressed by them as I was with the “success” Jane had in “beating” an opponent by giving her a label related to her anatomy and not her ideas.
Tom W. @ 16
We speak for ourselves only and if we are “helping the other side” in the process, they don’t seem to see it that way. Our traffic continues to soar, and while many have been quick to make the argument that we need to become more “dull” and “moderate” so we can enfranchise more people (and in the process please their particular tastes), that isn’t what we’re here for. And I think our successes speak for themselves.
Too many deja vus of late….40 years later and we are having the same conversation. When do we get to evolve?
I don’t like to be called a ‘c-word’ and I really don’t even like to hear the word applied to Coulter.
Is the ‘n-word’ still as widely used as the ‘c-word’?
Back in SF in the ’70’s, gay men and women were allies. Our common enemy was the rich, straight white male. If I was called a c-word, my gay friends were insulted as well. Why would a gay man call a woman a c-word? I know there are words that gay men don’t appreciate being called…and I wouldn’t think of using them…especially on a progressive blog.
Certain words are very powerful and create an intense feeling of anger…I believe lives have been lost over the use of such powerful words…why would firedoglake want them used? Unless, of course, women are the last ones to spit on….
Jane, I like the tone and content of your post. It is reasoned and open. It invites thoughtful dialog.
I don’t have any particularly strong opinions about word usage, but I do object when a habit of frequently demeaning others develops, regardless of the words used. The right wingers indulge in that sort of personal nastiness more than anyone on our side, as far as I know.
One exception to my indifference: when my daughter was around thirteen, I tried to discourage her from calling other girls “slut” or “whore” simply because those words seems to suggest that females are not allowed to be sexual or to enjoy sexuality. The tip-off to me is that there is no corresponding male word for those insults!
Also it seemed odd to me that she and her friends would say “don’t be a pussy” or even “don’t be such a girl,” I mean they would say that to other girls! Can you imagine anyone saying, “don’t be such a boy”? That’s a strange thing for a girl to say.
Thanks for your great site!
Here is where I am on this.
Have you ever seen a dead person? In the flesh?
I have and it made me say some very vulgar things (which were nevertheless totally inadequate in expressing what I was feeling)
So hearing those words in political debates with people who have produced thousands of dead people but dont ever want to see them is fine by me. Again totally inadequate to express the true feelings but what can you do when words fail you?
Pachacutec @ 31
That decision was made by our fabulous moderators, to whom the task of running this stuff (as volunteers) falls. If they’re okay with it, I have no problem.
[Mod Notel consider it done]
I don’t use the “c” word personally, though I’m hardly a saint on that front — nothing gets Michelle Malkin’s blood boiling faster than to remind her that I once called Kate O’Beirne “sandpaper snatch.”
As far as the “c” word I think you answered your own question with that ; ) Sandpaper snatch doesn’t have the same conotation I think
BUCK FUSH!!
Seriously though. With the topics covered here some profanity is warranted. I’ve been amazed that over the last 6 years ‘I’ve been able to still be outraged with this administration on a nearly daily basis. Makes me thing I’m still sane. Yet, they up the ante daily, its amazing in a horrible way. DAILY outrages every morning almost. If you aren’t outraged to the point of using profanity by his lot I think something is wrong with you. That said, I do try to save the profanity for when I really just can’t help it.
Carlin - Words you can’t say on television
It’s not the language, per se, but the tone of the post that accomodates the language.
A while back, there were posts here and elsewhere, that excoriated Maureen Dowd and others - rightfully so - for their Kewl Kids/Mean Girls sense of bullying.
Some of the posts under discussion strayed enough into that territory that, as I was reading them I thought, “Well, this is a bit ironic, isn’t it.”
Tom W. @
16
I think it true we don’t desire a smaller choir… but I also fear a choir without passion.
Pachacutec @ 18 & TRex@ 29 are pretty much at either end of the spectrum of posters. Personally I think TRex often gets too worked up and rather agressively patrols his posts, occassionally to the detriment of freewheeling discussion. Sorry but you’d make a hell of a sheepdog, you wield a nasty kabosh sometimes.
Yes and I prefer a more refined distillate: satire. I see satire as the most potent and maddening weapon that truly civil people have right now and this community thrills me with the outlet it affords its participants.
Thank you firedoglake for all that you are.
I saw the most recent trouble brewing when Walcott referenced a post here as “projectile vomiting” and linked to Tom Watson’s post decrying same.
My own sensibilities are on the rather crude side and I think I’m offended more by the holier than thou types of comments by those who deem themselves more refined than the general run of folks here. I remember several years back when hoi polloi was the word of the day for a month amongst the talking heads. When they said it I detected a pattern of usage that made it seem as if the word was a synonym for “those people”, to be uttered with a sniff from a finely boned nose and a flick from a dainty wrist, pinkie extended.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, just say it. Fuck ‘em if they can’t take a joke.
I think that we can, and do, police our ranks. We should leave the white glove inspections to those who give a shit, but insist that they do them at their own place, and on their own time.
I trust Ms Hampsher, and will abide by her rules in her house.
The very fact that you have opened this discussion is exemplary of the reasons I have stuck around despite being personally bothered by some of the posts and some of the hosts smackdowns.
I do think that there can be a danger of the venue becomming an echo chamber where dissenting thoughts are dismmissed as trolling.
But on the whole, over time it is fairly obvious that is not the case.
Evidence the very idea of asking for input on the subject of bounds.
What I see here is people with “Strong convictions”
(and a better than average command of the english language)
As to the choices of words - my biggest criticism of ‘obscenity’ is that it is so often used in place of a strong argument.
I do not think that is generally the case at FDL.
Certainly the used of any word does not mark the speaker as sexist or racist without context.
Jane Hamsher @ 21
My point, i think, is that the criticism, wrong or right, was honestly meant.
Previous history should be taken into account. Too often, the criticism isn’t taken issue with, the person making the criticism is.
re: Wolcott
Someone made me aware of that link via email, and I thanked her for it, saying:
martha @ 36
ooooH!
more strong language
^_-
spot on martha
I didn’t like the post about Tauscher.
Very visual imagery…that post made me click the computer off for a while.
I think some writers will season their work more than I like; or with more vivid images than I care for. I don’t want to look at “Guernica” all day long either, but God forbid if someone censored it!
There is also discussion on this matter at Shakespeare’s Sister and Feministe (top 2 posts).
First post; I’m usually a lurker here. Jane’s comments about the use of language by creative people really resonates with me. I am sick of the PC crowd, who, in the interest of not hurting feelings, de-germinate language. It’s the infantilization of discourse. I post a bit at DKos, but I am becoming increasingly exasperated by the hall monitors over there (the TRex thing being one; and BTW I lived in Japan for 18 months and used to speak pretty good Japanese and TRex’s observations were pretty spot on ).
What is appropriate language is, for me, ultimately a question of what is good writing.
A favorite quote: “In this country, vice is immaterial, but ridicule is fatal.” Comes from a Fench aristo at the court of Versailles.
Anyway, gratuitous name-calling just makes a commentator or poster look sophomoric, as if he or she couldn’t marshall a real argument to bring down his or her target.
I’m all for character assassination when there is no evidence of character, but it should be done with deadly wit and solid facts, not cheap vulgarities.
I’ve always thought that finely honed snark was the hallmark of FDL. Love it.
The Canadian said:
A while back, there were posts here and elsewhere, that excoriated Maureen Dowd and others - rightfully so - for their Kewl Kids/Mean Girls sense of bullying.
Exactly. And there was Taylor Marsh’s excellent post of the anti-Pelosi sexism. And then all of it ruined by criticizing our political enemies in sexist terms.
And Jane, c’mon down off the riser and outta the splotlight for a second and hang on the floor with the rest of us, will you? It’s great your traffic is growing and you’re finding success. But don’t pretend that this kind of language doesn’t injure, because it does. And it reflects on some otherwise excellent work - yours, Christy’s and Pach’s otherwise incisive post. And it’ll come back to haunt us at some very bad time.
I watched La Dolce Vita last night and I’m unable to think about anything else really. It’s that last scene where the little girl is looking directly at me. I think it’s about hope.
Does this mean that I can once again refer to Coulter as the cunt she truly is…without being attacked and derided as being sexist?
Larry
What has driven me crazy from a bigger picture perspective is something that Jane, Christy, Pach and TRex and others have written about for years. The rethugs played offense and most of the wimpy DINOs played appeaser and defense.
Well, language is a tool as well as a particularly useful weapon, if used to one’s advantage. And, as with many weapons, sometimes it is mishandled. So be it. But use it for heaven’s sake.
Larry @ 61
AND WE HAVE A WINNER!!
Larry wins the race to the bottom!
from a lurker @ 48
I’m going to take that as a compliment, although you should know I almost never pull a comment out of the thread and into moderation. That is entirely the work of our moderation team. I’m all for smacking them down in plain sight.
My personal sense is that this is one of the better behaved and most respectful weblogs out there. There’s simply no comparison between this (and just about any blue-of-center blog I can think of) relative to something like Freeperville or even the Wall Street Journal’s weblog (which, ironically, has recently turned into a .. how many obscenities can lay on the president in a single sentence free-for-all).
I did find it odd when Egregious jumped all over me earlier today when I mentioned that Russia could also become a potential “enemy” around which Bush may try to rally support at some point in the near future, since they’re now suspected of terroristic naughtiness AND just agreed to supply a lot of military equipment to Iran, but I suppose everybody has their sensitive points.
Ms. Hamsher—you are one of the most impressive, and equally infuriating, people it has ever been my pleasure to know…and that goes for some of the rest of you as well…and yes…you know who you are.
Jane Hamsher @
10
This discussion is a great example of the value of checks and balances. Now if we could only get that back in our Federal Government…
I don’t use much profanity in the comments I leave here at FDL, but I have a subconscious appreciation of the fact that there aren’t any strict parameters that would prevent such usage if I was so inclined.
Hi pups!
Jane, I love this:
I’m glad you’re raising this topic and the lake is talking about it - and I appreciate your and Pach’s observations (10/18) and sensitivity to power dynamics.
This issue has at least three facets I stumble over:
(1) words/lexicon:
“cunt”, the “n-word” and other sets of letters wth great emotional power.
(2) tone:
“Jane you ignorant slut” vs “My learned co-discussant” - and the innumerable gradations between.
(3) conceptual:
“Cheney whores for Halliburton” vs “Cheney blew up the WTC and sent out the twins to place the thermite.”
For me, the Lake is a sort of e-coffee house where progressive people who GET IT DONE come together - and you and Christy get to decide if someone needs to be cut off for the thread or the day. Or 86′d.
Your (collective) determinations on these three axes (and others) seems to work!
Dinner’s ready. To be brief - we commenters also set the tone, to some extent.
Two nights ago I was a fool and misconstrued a perfectly well-written comment here.
I wrote a very nasty response. Your thread isn’t about me(I hope) - but I’m owning this to be honest.
I’m also pointnig it out because my stupid attack will turn off “lurkers” from joining us - and that is a very great loss.
[pt 1 - I keep losing text on wordpress tonight…]
RBG at 66 — oh sure, I don’t get to be infuriating. *sniffle*
Pachacutec @
18
very cool
very thoughtful.
it is why I read what you say.
write on.
In traveling the web’s many forums, I prefer to talk issues. What is wrong with America, and what should be done to fix it? Quite commonly, there is a pattern of degradation. The conversation moves from talking about issues to talking about politicians involved in said issues, to flaming at politicians to flaming at the other posters. As one who sees things wrong with our country, and would like to see them fixed, watching conversations degrade into strawman and ad-hominem as bloggers find excuses to misrepresent other’s bloggers opinions and launch personal attacks is disappointing.
When bloggers are more about character assassination and insults than issues, I’m gone. Next article. Next blog. When a blogger is attacking a deliberately skewed parody of a rival bloggers or opposition politician’s position, same thing. Next article. Next blog.
I am bothered when writers can’t find a better way to express their opinions than resorting to foul language. To me, this is a sign of lazy writing, of a writer who does not want to bother speaking clearly. It is also a good way of turning off many a reader who doesn’t share one’s values. In political blogs, the left talks too much to the left and the right to the right in part because lazy or angry writers are not articulating ideas in a way someone with different values will be ready to hear.
I’m also a bit upset at the high and mighty conservative writers who love to show off their vocabulary. There seems to be a notion that the more a writer can use obscure vocabulary, the smarter that writer must be. This is the opposite of the gutter side blogs that roll in the mud whenever they can, but both styles turn off the open minded people looking for ideas and ideals.
Maybe this is just personal taste, but I’d like to see y’all saying what should be done and less time trading dirty words and insults. Every four score and seven years or so there is a need for a new birth of freedom. There is a real need to reinvent America. There is more to it than an obsession with insults and character assassination.
Who can forget
“Shut your fractious pie hole.”
or Trex’s wild desire to post a black-face Malkin?
Plenty of reasonable criticism has just been disappeared here.
Your “we are never wrong, we are victims” attitude is disturbing at best.
Tom W. @ 16
In what ways, precisely? Your statements are every bit as vague as those made by finger-wagging Bush cabinet members who warn us not to say things that “help the terrorists.”
I expect that a claim of injury will be more specific than this before I take it seriously. You need to offer something a lot more concrete than “This word hurts the cause.”
I think there’s two issues here: the words used and then what happens when people react to those words.
Personally, I’d hunt you all down and throw eggs at your cars if you stopped writing the way you do. For whatever reason, you all found each other and this place has a distinct voice–the writing is great as is.
But the comment threads at the site rarely rise up to the level of the posts. The threads seem more like strings of shout outs than discussions. I don’t know why this happens, but I suspect it’s just the software. This is a blog with huge traffic, but it still uses comment software made for blogs with small traffic.
But it is possible–and I raise this in good faith–it is possible that there is a dynamic on the site that is limiting dicussion. Strong FDL writing that if posted on DKos would generate huge discussions–tend to lead to a bunch of disconncetd comments, complements to the writers, and a few personal jibes from people who don’t like the site (but come here anyway–which I really don’t understand), and that’s pretty much it. I love to participate in comment threads when I find good writing on progressive blogs, so I feel frustrated by this dynamic at FDL.
But beyond my frustration, I think the comment dynamic can also turn frustration into anger in an unproductive way–in a way that distracts from the ideas in the post.
The “c**” issue raised here was one of those moments. You all have really good descriptions of why that kind of language is not just appropriate here, but valuable to the progressive movement. But when the topic was brought up in that thread in question, for some reason the good description never made it out–until this new post. Learning about that comment filter now brings it all into perspective.
So, I appreciate the invitation to feedback very much. If I had a Chanukkah wish list–it would the addition of diaries on FDL to allow for discussion to flourish on the site.
This can be self-fulfilling, no? By lighting up the blogosphere over this at your place, alerting the folks at Feministing, Shakespeare’s Sister and elsewhere, I can’t think of a better way to wave a big flag over something that could have rather passed with less heat and more light in discussion, all for the wingers to pay attention.
When we attack people like Schumer or Tauscher, it is for throwing progressives - Democrats - under the bus. And yet there’s a group in the lefty blogosphere that seems to find some of it’s raison d’etre in monitoring sites like this one for perceived offenses. Were your sites to be attacked by wingers, we’d stick up for you, because we’re progressive fighters. But it gets to feel like the knives are already out for us, and by some of the comments at your place, Tom, some people don’t even try to deny it.
If the concern is with handling right wing attacks, as they most assuredly will come (when they’re not busy now eating each other), then the solution is solidarity, not preemptive family feuds.
I’ve written six responses to this statement, all of which have made generous use of four-letter words. I may have to bail out of this discussion for now before I start banging heads.
Tom W. @
16
Tom I’ve spent a lot of time the last three days in the comments on your post criticizing Pach and TRex. In that time you have never responded to the fact that by calling someone “insane” you are deploying in the exact sort of language that you are criticizing.
Your “honestly meant” criticism lead with a baseball bat to the face. You called Pach “stupid”, “insane”, and suggested he’s a plant for Karl Rove. You do a disservice to your argument by opening with ad hominem and then complaining when the people that you attacked (but had not attacked you) respond in your comment thread with the same air of venom that you brought to your post. I’m not defending anyone’s diction here, but you got what you gave.
You have also repeatedly referenced that you use your real name on your blog posts. I haven’t seen Pach and TRex stoop so low as to respond and while I don’t speak for them, I do believe you’re coming across like a cranky blogger on this one. What, exactly, is your point? TRex has revealed his identity multiple times on this site, so I’m not sure what bearing that has on him. And Pachacutec is entitled to his privacy, as is Digby, Billmon, Retardo Montalban, zuzu, piny, and a slew of other phenomenal anonymous bloggers. Really. What is your point?
I would add that the debate in Tom’s thread has been a good one and I recommend people check out the whole three day discussion here.
I think foul language is a lot less of a problem than attacking or just being mean. Plenty of total A-holes never cuss and plenty of righteous individuals do. (Like Lenny Bruce and HST did). Never hear Donald Rumsfield cuss (Henny Penny!) but he is the most one of the most offensive S.O.B.’s to ever make evolve to a biped.
The spirit of the post is what can something offensive (to me anyway) not nessaciarly the actual language.
Larry @ 61
You see, I just don’t know if that’s OK here. I feel that if someone deserves the moniker, it’s Ms. Coulter. But knowing the FDL community (where it became a matter of heated discussion not too long ago when a woman’s legs were displayed in a very innocuous post), I don’t think that it’s necessarily permissable to use the word in that context.
I like the British use of the word…it’s almost always used to refer to a guy, and it’s about the equivalant to calling someone a “bastard”.
It’s sort of the “nigger-nigga’” debate (and with that line, I’m kind of wondering if I’ll set off the auto-moderation software).
Speaking from personal experience, my hearing-impared wife always seems to hear me if I whisper the word from three rooms away…I don’t know how they DO that!
RBG @ 66
a fine compliment to a truly remarkable woman.
Larry
I’m not looking for perfection here, nor do I expect it (or anywhere else for that matter).
Sometimes (very rarely) fur flies here and a choice word or two is used that offends some.
I can’t say that my sensibilities haven’t ever been…ahmmmm…stretched once or twice, but 99.9999 % of the time, the discourse here is far more civilized and moderate than 5 minutes on any grade-school playground today or 25 years ago (no, we haven’t evolved much to our chagrin *g*).
That said, there is NO single other place I’d rather hang around than FDL!
There are many outstanding blogsters writing in lots of other places, but there ain’t one other place that I’ve come to feel as Home.
And Home is where they have to take you in
when you have nowhere else to go.even if they don’t like you. even if they don’t agree with you.Tom W 69 — you called TRex and Pach sexists. They’re not. There is no ‘riser’ and there is no ‘us.’